Lex
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Found out today nearly a month after that my friend passed away, and no one had thought to tell me because I was just his friend and not really associated with anyone else....
He had always been so freaking nice to me, he was a bouncer where I use to go often when I was young. He was married but he always looked after my friend and I like we were his sisters when we went, the we started going just to hang out and visit with him and the bartender
We became a weird set of friends, we made sure he got home every night and Ate...(4am breakfast every weekend after the bar closed)
Hes just got a fancy new car recently ....
But the real morbid an messed up part was our last coversation and the last thing I sent him not knowing he'd died the week before and his funeral was being held.
We talked about him fixing up this car and how if he owned a car that nice now he better drive it like he stole it.
A month later while working on that car it crushed him to death
And the day before his last funeral visition which I didn't know about til today... I'd sent him a joke about the vampires, undead and the grim reaper skull f***ing him... which in my defense he'd of found hilarious... if he hadn't been dead..
What's funny is that before sending that message, without knowing he'd died, I had been thinking about him all week cause I hadn't heard from him in a month.... seems my intuition was morbidly aware of what I wasn't at the time.
He was such a good man one of the few who I felt genuinely safe around. He was kind and respectful, but he had done and was capable of terrible things to those who harmed or threatened others..
I will miss him greatly.
And remember him fondly in all the kind and hilarious stories I have of and with him from out younger days.
He had always been so freaking nice to me, he was a bouncer where I use to go often when I was young. He was married but he always looked after my friend and I like we were his sisters when we went, the we started going just to hang out and visit with him and the bartender
We became a weird set of friends, we made sure he got home every night and Ate...(4am breakfast every weekend after the bar closed)
Hes just got a fancy new car recently ....
But the real morbid an messed up part was our last coversation and the last thing I sent him not knowing he'd died the week before and his funeral was being held.
We talked about him fixing up this car and how if he owned a car that nice now he better drive it like he stole it.
A month later while working on that car it crushed him to death
And the day before his last funeral visition which I didn't know about til today... I'd sent him a joke about the vampires, undead and the grim reaper skull f***ing him... which in my defense he'd of found hilarious... if he hadn't been dead..
What's funny is that before sending that message, without knowing he'd died, I had been thinking about him all week cause I hadn't heard from him in a month.... seems my intuition was morbidly aware of what I wasn't at the time.
He was such a good man one of the few who I felt genuinely safe around. He was kind and respectful, but he had done and was capable of terrible things to those who harmed or threatened others..
I will miss him greatly.
And remember him fondly in all the kind and hilarious stories I have of and with him from out younger days.